Believing in the Impossible
When she was little, my daughter, Alexus, visited a 7-Eleven store with my wife, Jill. To reward Alexus’s wonderful report card, Jill said she could choose any treat. Our daughter said she wanted one of those scratch-off lottery tickets. Jill patiently tried to explain that no one ever really wins money playing those games, but strong-willed Alexus insisted.
As they walked to the car, Jill explained that if Alexus had bought something else then she would own something worth the money, and that the lottery often is a waste of money since it is so difficult to win. She explained about the odds of winning and showed Alexus the odds on the back of the ticket.
At the time, Jill had told me that she was more likely to have Huntington’s disease than win the lottery. Tragically, years later, we found out that both she and our daughter are gene positive.
But back to the story. When they got to the car, Alexus didn’t want to wait to furiously scratch the silver, flakey cover off the ticket, so Jill gave her a dime.
Alexus won.
Yes, that’s right, she won. She won $2, which was double the ticket price. Jill, who never won, was amazed. So, she took Alexus and the ticket back into the store. She cashed it in, gave Alexus the money, and then, excited to have won, our daughter asked if she could buy a $2 ticket.
Ah, the innocence of children.
Jill said yes because she knew the ticket would be a loser, so Alexus would learn a valuable lesson. Gambling and wishing for a win is not something that always works.
That would have been a great lesson, had it worked. It didn’t.
Alexus won the second time. And then a third. She looked lovingly at my wife and asked if the lesson was over. Jill replied yes. Jill realized that not only had she failed to teach Alexus something, but that Alexus had taught her about a little something — hope.
Jill learned that we can believe in what seems like the impossible. She learned that sometimes odds are not deterrents but rather something to beat. That lesson still fuels her belief in a cure for Huntington’s disease.
The nearly impossible happens all the time. You just have to believe in it.
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Comments
Belinda Lindsay
It’s nice to reach out and care
for others in other countries.
We could cre more if we had a treatment. We need a treatment now. Most of us are tired of hearing all the mambo
Jumbo with trials,more research, we are not getting
any further. We are powerless
with this illness. We need
a treatment and now.
Carlos Briceño
Thank you for writing. I totally agree that we need a treatment and now. It's what I pray for.
Barbara
Have I Told you guys lately that I ❤ you.
Carlos Briceño
Thank you! We love you too!