My Wife Is Taking the Right Steps to Manage Her ADHD
One of the questions her nurse practitioner asked was, “How did you live for 44 years without being diagnosed with ADHD?”
Jill’s answer was simple. She grew up in a family where many members had ADHD, so she never realized that she had it because it was the norm. The second reason was that she developed many coping mechanisms — such as setting constant alarms and writing notes to remind her of what she needed to focus on — all of which helped to mask that she had it.
Jill said she was controlling her symptoms fairly well until she was diagnosed as gene-positive for Huntington’s disease (HD) in 2018. She doesn’t think HD caused the ADHD, but it certainly wasn’t making it better. But lately, she’s been having a hard time paying attention to conversations, keeping on task, and staying in the moment.
Jill has always had these issues, but they’ve gotten worse and started negatively affecting her life.
For instance, she recently had an important virtual meeting to attend, but despite setting an alarm on Alexa, a reminder on her phone, and talking to me about it the night before, she completely forgot about it.
I can relate, as I suffer from ADHD, too. I’ve written about my issues with it and know how frustrating it can be. I’m thankful Jill has been patient with me, so I try to help her as much as I can.
She hadn’t really noticed how bad it had gotten until our daughter, Alexus, who is also gene-positive for HD, told Jill that her ADHD had gotten to be “a lot.”
So Jill did the right thing and went to the doctor to get a proper diagnosis and a prescription for the right medicine.
I’ve heard negative stories about people becoming addicted to the stimulants often prescribed to treat ADHD, so I asked Jill if the risk was worth it.
She shared two points with me in response. She said there are risks every time we get into a car. We drive because we need to get from point A to point B. Sometimes, things happen on the way to the destination: a flat tire, traffic that makes us arrive late, an accident. But that doesn’t stop us from getting in the car and driving.
She also added an important point.
“I am using the medication for the right reasons and under the proper care of my doctor,” she said. “So I don’t worry about being addicted because I’m doing all I can to do the right things to make my mind slow down.”
If anyone reading this wonders if they have ADHD, it’s important to be careful about self-diagnosing. Any concerns about this serious mental health issue — or possibly taking medication to treat it — should be discussed with a medical professional, and no medication should be taken unless prescribed by a doctor.
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