I’ve lost two moms in my lifetime.
My biological mom, Debbie, who was with me for the first 23 years of my life, passed away in 2011 after a 15-year battle with Huntington’s disease (HD).
When she was diagnosed, we learned about the progression that inevitably would lead to her death. We knew our time together was limited, and that we would slowly lose her without some type of medical breakthrough. Unfortunately, that never happened.
Last month, I lost my stepmom, Gail, who had been a part of my life for the last 10 years. She didn’t have Huntington’s but had battled cancer in some form for as long as I knew her. Looking back on her cancer journey, I think many parallels could be drawn to my mom’s HD journey. However, the main difference is that with cancer, I always felt a glimmer of hope that through divine intervention, or a miracle, she might be cured.
Every time cancer reappeared in my stepmom, she would put on the boxing gloves and go beat up her opponent. That’s what many of us felt she would do again. Gail’s doctor called her a miracle patient. But this time, chemotherapy, radiation, diet, medication, and divine intervention couldn’t stop the cancer beast.
The most impressive thing about Gail was that although she was constantly in the ring trying to knock cancer out of her body, she found joy and fullness in every single day.
2020 was a wild year for everyone. We could all argue over who had a worse year, and nobody would win. Gail taught me and many others that no matter what life throws at you, today is a great day to be alive.
Although it’s a new year, our problems haven’t disappeared, COVID-19 is still around, Huntington’s disease still doesn’t have a cure, and our loved ones who have passed are still gone. What we all are blessed with is the ability to be alive on this planet. Why not live like Gail and make the most of it — even if life doesn’t seem so perfect?
My hope today, and for the rest of the year, and eternity, is that we all take a deep breath each morning and appreciate the gift of life we have in front of us. Prioritize what brings us joy and eliminate all that brings us anxiety. No matter your current situation or hardships, find the time and energy to locate the joy and peace in every moment you have.
Wishing you all a blessed and happy new year!
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