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Tomorrow, Feb. 28, I’ll celebrate a milestone that once seemed impossible: my 50th birthday. This date is deeply meaningful and significant for me. Just a day away from a leap day, it has always been a reminder to me of life’s unpredictability. But there’s another, even deeper correlation: Feb. 28…

I recently learned something valuable: Not every item we buy is made to accommodate people with disabilities. This realization came with a mix of frustration and enlightenment, sparked by something as mundane — and essential — as a computer screen. My epiphany started when my wife‘s laptop broke, the…

Valentine’s Day is often associated with love, chocolates, and grand romantic gestures. But for me, this year, it became something much more profound — an unforgettable day of relief, gratitude, and the reaffirmation of hope. It was the day my nephew DeMarco Duhaney learned he was free from Huntington’s…

As we approach Rare Disease Day on Feb. 28, I find myself reflecting on the journey of my wife, Jill, with Huntington’s disease (HD) and the struggles that families affected by genetic conditions face. One issue I’m focused on is a critical gap in healthcare policy that continues to…

The Huntington’s disease (HD) community is a family bound together by shared experiences, mutual understanding, and unbreakable ties of support. Within this family, certain individuals shine in ways that leave an indelible mark on our hearts. My dear friend Roy Nierenberg was one of those bright lights — an…

For Valentine’s Day each year, I write my wife, Jill, something romantic. It’s my way of expressing the depth of my love for her as she battles Huntington’s disease, an inherited neurodegenerative terminal illness. Each of the columns, which often are in the form of a play, has been…

For as long as I can remember, the Lunar New Year has held a special place in my heart. Every year since 2008, I’ve made it a tradition to celebrate the occasion with a meal at one of the most authentic Chinese restaurants in my town. This year was no…

When I met my wife, Jill, I had a different view of healthcare than I do now. Since she learned she was gene positive with Huntington’s disease in 2018, I’ve been forced to look at healthcare through Jill’s eyes. We’ve gone to countless doctor appointments together, where I’ve witnessed…

Anger is a powerful emotion that many people living with Huntington’s disease face regularly. This neurodegenerative disease causes changes in the brain, often leading to mood swings, irritability, and, for some, aggressive behavior. These emotional shifts aren’t a reflection of our character, but a byproduct of how the disease…

One of the many issues my wife, Jill, faces as she battles Huntington’s disease (HD) is dealing with mental healthcare providers who treat HD patients by the book. Here’s what I mean: They follow a very specific, rigid protocol that makes her feel like she’s not being seen as an…