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I sat across from my wife, Jill, watching her organize her nail polish. When she paused, I could see the weight of her body language: She was slumped forward, which is unusual for her, as she usually projects positivity in everything she says and does. She was…

“I wake up panicking and find it hard to unclench the ball of anxiety tightening in my chest.” — Melanie Pearson, from her first blog post about caring for her brother with Huntington’s disease. I understand Melanie’s feelings. Huntington’s has also taken the lives of my dad, grandad, and…

Our peaceful neighborhood was recently shaken by an unexpected tragedy. Our neighbors across the street, in the midst of renovating their roof, watched helplessly as a single spark from a power saw ignited a fire that caused extensive damage to their home. As I stood with my wife, Jill,…

As a caregiver to my wife, Jill, who is gene-positive for Huntington’s disease, I’ve learned that helping isn’t always as straightforward as it seems. Recently, as I watched her face scrunch up in frustration while she looked at her to-do list, I reminded her that she could…

“The brain is like a muscle. When it is in use we feel very good. Understanding is joyous.” — Carl Sagan  A chance meetup last summer with a local in my community led to a slightly random conversation about brain donation. I was discussing a genetic test I…

It’s been a hot summer so far, which isn’t the greatest weather for my wife, Jill, to deal with. She is gene-positive for Huntington’s disease, which causes her to have difficulty regulating her body temperature. But recently, a rainstorm was followed by a soft, summer breeze…

Huntington’s disease presents a complex range of behavioral, cognitive, physical, and psychological symptoms. It poses many challenges to families, friends, caregivers, and people who are living alone with this condition. Huntington’s has taken the lives of my dad, grandad, and great-grandmother. I tested negative for…

As my 60th birthday approaches in August, my wife, Jill, and our daughter, Alexus, have decided that we must celebrate in a special way. Because our schedules are free in mid-July, we’ll be getting together soon instead of next month. However, instead of throwing a party, they have…

I recently connected with patient advocate Tanita Allen through my work for Huntington’s Disease News. In May, for Huntington’s Disease Awareness Month, Tanita kindly shared the story of her own Huntington’s disease journey for this website’s Community Spotlight project. Huntington’s disease has affected several generations of my…

In our quiet moments together, my wife, Jill, often shares her deepest thoughts with me. Recently, one such conversation left a profound mark on my heart. Jill’s Huntington’s disease has shaped our lives and made every moment precious, but her perspective on the journey is a constant source…